swallowing good for you???

[cornflakegirl]

evidently, swallowing semen reduces women's risk of breast cancer. :confused: can't believe this was a study.

http://homepage.mac.com/nikkienikks/iblog/C294808266/E910814554/Media/cnn.html

had to have been male researchers that actually stated this:

"The University researchers stressed that, though breast cancer is relatively uncommon, any steps taken to reduce the risk would be a wise decision."

right, i'm sure that is what they tell their wives & girlfriends.

[kitalyn414]

LMAO!!!

so sorry liz, but that page is a joke. who sent it to you?

[cornflakegirl]

i was thinking that, considering the link wasn't actually cnn, but someone's homepage. a friend sent it to me & no, not deadend.

[Skyblade]

haha...I think i've seen this before.

[shinyleaf]

Ouch, if they can fool you, Liz, think of how the average non-research savvy citizen can be fooled! Scary!

If you read closely, the story is full of holes re: how the study was conducted. First, noone would ever do a study like this using a sample of women who were "suspected" of swallowing, and then compare them to those who don't perform fellatio ( the "study" didn't even mention it had this control group at all)

#2: Be wary of any report of a study that confirms causation, or even alludes to it.

"The group of women who had performed and swallowed had a breast cancer rate of 1.9 percent and the group who had not had a breast cancer rate of 10.4 percent. " : If these fake stats were true, this would probably be a significant difference, yet it doesn't claim to be. Rule #3, real results will always be supported by a statement about statistical significance, not just raw numbers/%'s.

OK, that's enough geekiness for one day. Skippy the Statistician says,,,, "BEEEE Skeptical"! :)

[mishl982]

Hehe, yea that's totally fake. I got that one a year ago. But I admit it made me think for a second.

[Angyl]

i jsut think swallowing is polite. i dont really think of my health.....more of being nice....

[cornflakegirl]

yeah, i didn't really read the article. read about 2 lines then posted it.

swallowing is polite? interesting

[Radgirl]

Make sure my bf never sees that. He'll be all over it!!

[Angyl]

yeah, i didn't really read the article. read about 2 lines then posted it.

swallowing is polite? interesting


well i mean spitting seems so rude, like your sperm is not good enough for my mouth.

[biodork]

My bf understands, I can't swallow. I've tried. I gag and throw up. I picture little spermies swimming through the tastebuds and lines in my tongue. ICK

I think a lot of guys understand though, because hell they don't want to swallow it either heh. It's just a plus when you do.

[cornflakegirl]

well i mean spitting seems so rude, like your sperm is not good enough for my mouth.

i have to say that my mouth is far superior to any man's sperm.

i can think of lots of reasons why not to swallow & only one to - it is awkward spitting it out. hmm, but then again it is awkward when i am making faces, trying to swallow something not at all tasty or of a pleasant consistency. my personal philosophy is if a guy just got a bj, he has no right to complain about anything, especially whether or not his semen goes into my stomach.

[Angyl]

i have to say that my mouth is far superior to any man's sperm.

i can think of lots of reasons why not to swallow & only one to - it is awkward spitting it out. hmm, but then again it is awkward when i am making faces, trying to swallow something not at all tasty or of a pleasant consistency. my personal philosophy is if a guy just got a bj, he has no right to complain about anything, especially whether or not his semen goes into my stomach.

that is a very good point.

[Starfish81]

well i mean spitting seems so rude, like your sperm is not good enough for my mouth.

Dear, no one's sperm is good enough for my mouth. I agree with cornflake; and I will add, if any guy just got a blow job from me (which is highly unlikely), and he complained about my spitting out his semen, he would not be receiving a blow job from me ever again.

[Deadend]

Thanks Sweetie! I told you I have to pick a thesis topic in a couple of weeks and I have to admit, this is way better than anything I would have *come up* with myself. Unfortuneately I have my doubts as to weather the chem eng department will approve it. (Maybe the professors would say no and turn around and do the study themselves)

Actually, I think after the radiation doses me and my housemates were getting from the faulty microwave, my radioactive juice wouldn't work to well. Or maybe it would act like chemotherapy. Who knows.

[hoodie]

Forget social graces, swallowing is just cleaner. There isn't always a place to spit.

[tartytwenty]

Forget social graces, swallowing is just cleaner. There isn't always a place to spit.


LOL, exactly.

Swallowing is done on a case by case basis. Never pleasant, however.

[blueyes]

Swallowing is done on a case by case basis. Never pleasant, however.
Exactly. Now how can I make my bf understand this?!

(oh, and sweetheart that he is, my bf has previously used this 'article' to 'convince' me. Ha.)

[paiger81]

Swallowing is done on a case by case basis. Never pleasant, however.

I only do it on special occasions--birthdays, high stress times, etc--I seriously have to psych myself up for it. Luckily Kirk is ok with this, and sees it as a treat whenever I do it.

[Angyl]

i have enough problems with BJs as it is. Guys should praise god when we do it AND swallow.

[paiger81]

BJ's don't bother me at all, it's the actual swallowing part that takes a lot of effort.

[J-girl]

ew i hate giving bjs.

[MetFanL]

BJs don't bother me, either. Neither does swallowing... Just don't touch my head. That's not cool.

[paiger81]

BJs don't bother me, either. Neither does swallowing... Just don't touch my head. That's not cool.

Swallowing kills me, like I have a bottle of Scope right next to me for when I'm done, I really just can't handle it.
HA!! I have had 1 incident where I was literally SHOVED into it!! I completely got up, threw clothes at him, and walked out of the room. I don't take that kindly either.

[blueyes]

I'm with you on the whole head-grabbing thing. Yes, you're totally into it and whatever - but seriously, if you touch my head like that, I'm going to bite you.

End of story.

[Angyl]

it makes me feel like a pet. stroking my head while I'm down there is not cool. Just lay back and enjoy. it also freaks me out when they don't make a noise at all. it's very hard to judge if you're sdoing ok if they dont give you some recognition. an "mmm" is good enough.

[biodork]

If you have trouble giving BJs, I recommend this stuff called Good Head. It comes in different flavors, and it suppresses your gag reflex. I have mint :) Works SO well because I absolutely hate them and always gag without it.

Oh and I say if your SO is begging you to swallow, tell him that he should fill up a tiny cup himself, let you squirt it into the back of his throat and have him swallow and if he likes it THEN you will be ok with doing it. :twisted:

[blueyes]

I think my lack of enthusiasm over BJs directly correlates to my SO's lack of enthusiasm for reciprocation for me. Taste, sensation, and all else be damned.

[labrat2111]

Well I've been with girls with varying levels of interest in both bj's and swallowing. If a girl is willing to give bj's I'm fine with either swallowing or not. If you want to swallow I'll be happy and cheer you on and if not that's cool too.

I think it's funny though how some of the girls I was with were not the greatest on kissing after I had gone down on them.

[paiger81]

I think it's funny though how some of the girls I was with were not the greatest on kissing after I had gone down on them.

Wait?! You mean you tried to kiss them right after going down on them :eek: I'm the same way, don't kiss me after doing that, sorry, I don't kiss a dude with his spermy leftovers, and I don't want him to kiss me.

[Morgan81]

I'm with you on the whole head-grabbing thing. Yes, you're totally into it and whatever - but seriously, if you touch my head like that, I'm going to bite you.

End of story.

Never knew it freaked out so many of you ladies.... I'm not talking about the grab and shove & smother, but the gentle hair play. It was always a staple of mine without any attacks and I figured it made you feel a little less corner whore and a little more pornstar....at least that how one of my female associates who liked it explained it.

[MetFanL]

Never knew it freaked out so many of you ladies.... I'm not talking about the grab and shove & smother, but the gentle hair play. It was always a staple of mine without any attacks and I figured it made you feel a little less corner whore and a little more pornstar....at least that how one of my female associates who liked it explained it.

Hair play is acceptable. It's the other nonsense that makes me walk away.

[StateNAurora]

So absolutely no contact should be made between one of my hands and the head of the girl performing oral sex? Even though I am in no way impeading her movement, providing direction, or forcing her(which only a scum bag would do)? What about the side of the head? I have a thing for woman's long hair. In fact I think I provide an invaluable service by keeping her hair out of the way. In doing so she is able to concebtrate on what she is doing. So how about are their exceptions to your no hand head conatact during head?

[shimmer728]

[QUOTE=StateNAurora] What about the side of the head? I have a thing for woman's long hair. In fact I think I provide an invaluable service by keeping her hair out of the way. QUOTE]

I agree that you do. Long hair can really be a pain in these situations. ;)

[wordsmith]

Hair play/a gentle touch is an entirely different animal than having your head grabbed or shoved. I don't mind being touched. Direction isn't a bad thing, etiher, depending on how you go about giving it.

And, yes to the long hair issues. :eek:

[Bugsey34]

I personally don't want him touching my head at all if I am doing this. And also I never understand the big deal with swallowing. I mean it's so far back in your mouth, are you really tasting anything at all? I never taste it, its not like I'm rinsing with it.... ewww.

[Angyl]

i would like to say that it's absolutely hilarious that we're talking about this.

I only get freaked out when there's liek a grunt and he grabs my head and shoves it into his diddly winks and such. ew. And plus, man, that motion makes me gag and that's no fun. I can deal with hair playing i guess, just be gentle for goodness sakes, we're performing a delicate procedure.

[wordsmith]

i would like to say that it's absolutely hilarious that we're talking about this.

Yes...note to self...this is NOT your all-women board. Watch yourself!

[Kitty]

I'm eating runny oatmeal right now, and I just read this thread for the first time... :(

[J-girl]

I'm eating runny oatmeal right now, and I just read this thread for the first time... :(
Swallow it! :twisted:

[istartedyoung]

um along with the head forcing thing.. please dont pretend the girls mouth is something else ( i mean i know thats the point) but dont move around like it is, ya know what I mean? let us do the work

[stonemonkey]

can I just say that reading this thread has made me painfully aware of how innocent and inexperienced I am?

[Winter Storm]

You know I've been trying to reply to this post for days and I just can't!

:p

[labrat2111]

can I just say that reading this thread has made me painfully aware of how innocent and inexperienced I am?


I got some of the most interesting information from when my ex Jaime and I would hang out with all her female friends and have a few drinks. They certainly were not shy about what they did and did not like sexually. Plus it was funny that her best friend would tell her sexual stuff that was supposed to be secret but my g/f would tell me it to me anyway and we'd have a good chuckle.

[Starfish81]

can I just say that reading this thread has made me painfully aware of how innocent and inexperienced I am?

Ditto for me.

[stonemonkey]

Yeah, I feel so Amish.

[Angyl]

well, i mean we're here to educate?

I am always overly eager to talk about sex once I get a few drinks in me...it's not my best trait.

[stonemonkey]

well, i mean we're here to educate?


hey baby, you can 'educate' me anytime!

(sorry, I saw the opportunity for a sleazy pickup line, I had to take it...)

[Starfish81]

Yeah, I feel so Amish.

I'm sure the Amish have given their share of blowjobs. Ezekiel and Jebediah like to have fun, too.

[stonemonkey]

Yeah, but don't the hats get in the way? I guess barns aren't the only things that get raised.

OK, I'm gonna apologise right now if I've offended any Amish folk who happen to be reading this.

[WeirdBrake]

OK, I'm gonna apologise right now if I've offended any Amish folk who happen to be reading this.

And if any of them are......

GET OFF THE COMPUTER, YOU HYPOCRITES! YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE USING ELECTRICITY! GOD WILL SMITE YOU!! lol

[WeirdBrake]

Yeah, but don't the hats get in the way? I guess barns aren't the only things that get raised.

LOL!! Gotta give credit where credit's due. This one's clever.

[spokes]

this is a question for the ladies who don't enjoy giving, how do you feel about receiving? what is it about giving a BJ that puts you off.

if anyone cares i love giving, i think it is awsome to watch.....

[biodork]

this is a question for the ladies who don't enjoy giving, how do you feel about receiving? what is it about giving a BJ that puts you off.


I don't mind receiving as much but tend to not want my bf to do it often because I don't return often (I feel bad about it) He always says he likes to do it though. The main reason I don't enjoy doing it is because I can't open my mouth very wide, so that just makes the whole thing harder (oh man no pun intended there) Also I have a problem with grinding my teeth, so most of the time my jaw is really sore, so it's like added pain whenever I give head. Not to mention I have a bad back/neck so the position for it is also bad and causes me pain.

Kind of hard for me to enjoy doing something for someone when all it does is cause me a ton of pain. So I give BJs to my bf, just on special occasions. He is a very understanding guy!

[shimmer728]

I'm eating runny oatmeal right now, and I just read this thread for the first time... :(

EWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[pisces2473]

Yeah, I feel so Amish.
Damn, I'm impressed that an Australian knows about the Amish.

And WB, I almost spat out my coffee when I read your "smite" comment. Maybe they are doing rumspringa and that's why they are on the net, duuuuh.

[mishl982]

can I just say that reading this thread has made me painfully aware of how innocent and inexperienced I am?
That's ok, I've never done it and this thread doesn't encourage me to want to try!

[stonemonkey]

Damn, I'm impressed that an Australian knows about the Amish.


I'm just really Americanised. I don't know how representative I am of other Aussies. So don't go thinking everyone in Australia's an angst-ridden weirdo. That's just me.

[Kristyn]

this is a question for the ladies who don't enjoy giving, how do you feel about receiving? what is it about giving a BJ that puts you off.

if anyone cares i love giving, i think it is awsome to watch.....

BJs are just nasty. I can't explain it. There's nothing appealing about gagging, and the taste makes me want to puke afterwards. It's just an awkward situation.

As for recieving, I don't mind, just do not try to kiss me afterwards (very nasty!). My boyfriend loves giving, but it makes me feel guilty when he does because I hate reciprocating. He's understanding, but I'm also sure he's disappointed in my lack of interest in BJs.

[Desiderata]

And if any of them are......

GET OFF THE COMPUTER, YOU HYPOCRITES! YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE USING ELECTRICITY! GOD WILL SMITE YOU!! lol


LMAO! right on!

Here's an interesting tidbit... apparently in the rural praries, there are some mennonite "camps" or whatever the hell they call where they live, and they often pay passerby's to have sex with their women folk, to keep their gene pool diverse. Here's the hitch, it's through a sheet. Big old sheet with a hole in the middle, so you can't see. Heard this from more than a few guys I know who worked on the oil refineries and did some travelling...