Where to go after Hook Up?

[bosshog]

What would you all make of this situation. I ended up going out with a girl I have known forever the other evening and hooking up and doing the one nighter thing. Here's a little background though. I have known her since the 7th grade and there was never any romantic interest, ever. She has known my sister's and ex very well, so it was always more a friendship with them. She recently got out of a long term relationship and I was not trying to move in at all. I just wanted her to go out with me and some of my friends.

So as things go, I am attracted to her and do feel that I could prob have a relationship with her, since it is very comfortable. However, she knows that I have been kind of dating another girl too. I told her while we were hooking up that I did like her, but I am not sure if she feels the same. I think she does. I am trying to figure out where to go from here. I didn't approach the subject since I didn't want to be awkward and put myself out there. I do think I would want something with her though and I am not sure how to tell her that. Also, I guess I kind of hesitate devoting a lot of effort into making something out of nothing when I have this other girl that I would like to get to know better as well. Sorry so long, but any advice from the females would be helpful.

[dreams82]

Bosshog-I can relate. I am actually going to start a thread on feelings and how they change so quickly.

It's tough, isn't it, to date 2 chicks at once? I always feel quilty when I am seeing more than one guy. But what if you like them both equally? What do you do then? I guess... at some point you will start to feel more strongly for one than the other.

Do you like this girl? How do you feel about the other girl?? How do they feel about you?? What is your gut telling you?? Whatever it is, go with it. It is tough putting yourself out there. Be honest with these girls. That is the best way to go about this. Good luck!

[bosshog]

Yeah, not to sound conceited but it is a tough thing. I guess it is a case of feeling the same about both. I like the hook up girl enough that i would think of being in something long term with her, but she has a track record of going through guys in large quantities. On the other hand I think something could come of it just the way things have been between us leading up to it. It's a matter of knowing someone to well. The other one I am on the fence about. I haven't really gotten to know her as well as i would like, and while I find her attractive, I know I am not going to rush things. This could backfire though and she could decide she wants more than the friends zone.

[and1grad]

Doesnt sound conceited to me, sounds pretty normal. I say take it as slow as possible b/c u dont want to make a bad decision based on a "new" thing. The new things always look better in the beginning.

[GetMeOuttaDC]

I like the hook up girl enough that i would think of being in something long term with her, but she has a track record of going through guys in large quantities.

That sounds like a red flag to me, JD. Sorry.