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week2week
08-19-2005, 10:37 AM
My gf has 3 main friends and 1 friend who she was tight with a little while before getting involved with me. The 3 main friends, N, V, & K1 all had/have bf's. N's bf is in the military and away for the time being, but things are good between them. V just broke up with her bf who she's been seeing for the past 5 years. K1 just cut off her guy friend who she wanted more with, but he was just into her for friendship and sex.

The other friend, K2, doesn't really like me or the bf's of her other friends. I personally think that she's bitter and jealous of her friends, but whatever. K2 fell out not with just my gf around the time we got together, but also with the 3 others.

Now, it seems like they're all coming back together as K2 invited them all out after not talking to them for a while after finding out about the splits for K1 and V. I'm on very good terms with N, V, and K1. Last night's girl's nite out to Applebee's put the idea into my head that K2 might seize the chance to drive a wedge between me and the girl. She might see this as a chance to play the "we've got to be supportive for V and K1" card, while at the same time trying to keep me away as much as possible. I'm not really worried or sweating it.

I'm just curious if you girls are devious like this, or am I just making shit up in my head?

:p

hoodie
08-19-2005, 10:43 AM
Hm, I dunno. There's something to be said for a woman who is shallow enough to be jealous and bitter of her friends when they're happy. I wouldn't put anything past a girl like that. Not to make you paranoid or anything. In actuality, K2 (isn't that a brand of inline skates??) I don't think, is sitting at home tapping her fingers together thinking, "Okay, now how to break up all my friends' relationships?" She probably sees this as a chance to "get her friends back" and see them now that she doesn't have to deal with being the sole single one. Which is crap, I'll give you. Still I wouldn't worry too much. If your girls' other friends are all cool with you and so is your girl, have faith in the female gender. That wedge won't take even if there is an attempt for it to be planted if all is genuinely well with you, your lady, and her other friends.