Why?

[dreams82]

Guy asks his girl friend about a girls status (is she single, dating, in a relationship?)
Girl friend asks girl-girl responds 'single'
Girl expresses interest in meeting guy
Guy comes to girls work and doesn't say anything.

So sad! I always get my hopes up! He was cute too! Why do guys do this??

[shimmer728]

What do you mean that he came to your work and didn't say anything? :p He just stood there and stared at you blankly?

I'm confused.

[analogman]

Guy comes to girls work and doesn't say anything.

Did he come into your work to see you but not say anything or is he there on business? Maybe he was just trying to be professional.

[dreams82]

No, I sit out front. He used to work here before I came. He walked by, we've never been properly introduced, and plus I was talking with someone, so maybe he felt akward, I don't know. I always miss these chances, connections and I am sick of it!

[shimmer728]

Well, can you ask your friend if she can set you guys up?

[spokes]

nothing wrong with a girl asking to be set up with a guy, i'd be flattered.

[dreams82]

Ya, she works where I work, but I rarely see her. I sent her an email this week asking her when I was gonna get to meet him, and she did respond with no def. answer. I don't want to come across as being desperate, but this guy seems like a good catch. I just really want something to work out for once!

[dreams82]

UPDATE!

So, I went out with a group of kids from work, and he was there! It was actually for his birthday, and come to find out he lives in the next town over from me! We hit it off like immediately!! We were talking the whole night, and he seemed really interested. Then he met me the next day to watch the Pats game! Now, he has my #, I don't have his, and I told him to call me so I can have his #! Hopefully he will sometime this week! I am excited, but I don't wanna get my hopes up, because I have been wrong before! So, we will see what happens!

[tina1979]

good for you! i hope everything works out!

[Bugsey34]

Good job, I hope it works out!

[dreams82]

Thanks all, me too!!

[dreams82]

I wish I wasn't so insecure when it comes to guys, but I'll ask anyway, though I am sure I won't like the answer.

If a guy likes you or is interested in getting to know you better, he'll call right? I am trying to tell myself to just let this progress naturally, and not to worry and get so worked up, but I find myself sitting here, not able to help it.

I gave him my #, I don't have his, so balls in his court. So, guys I really need your input. Do you give it a few days, as to not crowd a girls space, or do you get nervous or scared that you won't know what to say, so you don't call. Are you just busy sometimes, or don't want to look desperate? Or is it the answer I am dreading, he's just not that into you!

GRRRR!!

[GetMeOuttaDC]

Don't call him. If he likes you and is interested, he WILL call. Any guy who is too shy, busy, whatever to call you isn't worth your time.

If he doesn't call you, then yes, he is just not that into you.

So here's hoping he'll call. ;)

[dreams82]

I guess it's a good thing that I do not have his #!

[dreams82]

Yay, he called last night. I am so excited. I will be seeing him tomorrow at my works annual awards dinner! Thanks you all for listening and for your input!