Tayl405
10-14-2005, 12:44 PM
I need you guys to help me! Please tell me I'm doing the right thing (even though I know I am), but it helps to hear it. I need a pep talk. :p
I am officially done with the fwb-turned-semi-boyfriend. He has a drinking problem, can't get his life together (therefore can't treat me the way I want and need to be treated), and wants his hand held through life. I'm not gonna hold it. My friend (his roommate) is breaking his lease and moving out because he can't even pay his rent and my friend is sick of his shit. And I don't blame him. It just sucks that I let myself actually fall for the guy (before knowing all this of course) and just the other day he told me all this stuff about how much he likes me. Well it doesn't matter - you can tell me all you want but SHOW me. So I'm done. I'd like to say when he gets his shit together maybe it could work, but that's not going to happen for a LONG time I have a feeling.
I'm currently debating over whether or not I'm going to tell him I'm through with him. He left a shirt in my car, and every time I see it I think about him, which will bother me, so I'm thinking about just dropping it off and if he says anything then I'll just say something along the lines of "you just need to get your life together."
I am officially done with the fwb-turned-semi-boyfriend. He has a drinking problem, can't get his life together (therefore can't treat me the way I want and need to be treated), and wants his hand held through life. I'm not gonna hold it. My friend (his roommate) is breaking his lease and moving out because he can't even pay his rent and my friend is sick of his shit. And I don't blame him. It just sucks that I let myself actually fall for the guy (before knowing all this of course) and just the other day he told me all this stuff about how much he likes me. Well it doesn't matter - you can tell me all you want but SHOW me. So I'm done. I'd like to say when he gets his shit together maybe it could work, but that's not going to happen for a LONG time I have a feeling.
I'm currently debating over whether or not I'm going to tell him I'm through with him. He left a shirt in my car, and every time I see it I think about him, which will bother me, so I'm thinking about just dropping it off and if he says anything then I'll just say something along the lines of "you just need to get your life together."