time to move?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes it takes a couple of months to give a thumbs up or down on a place to live. I believe that is a fact. However, I am a fan of feeling something in my gut and acting on THAT, instead of being logical about everything. In short, my heart must be moved.

If you are the same, trust that you don't like Penn and leave. If you are more logical, then you have to sit down and write all the pros and cons about each of your choices, and go from there.

I vote that you go to Richmond. If it makes sense for your career and you have no ties...then do it! Home will always be there, right?

Good luck and TRUST YOURSELF! Remember, we project onto others, so the advice people give you is really what THEY would do...not nesc an objective idea about what YOU should do. Having said that, yes, I would go to Richmond. That's why I tell you the same.

[froggre14]

when do you know its the right time to move?
i recently moved from long island to shippensburg penn. it wasnt my first choice of places to move but it came up and i grabbed it. well big mistake there. its only been 7 weeks but i already know its not for me. i work 45 minutes away and there just isn't any nightlife. now an opportunity to move to richmond virginia came up. do i take it? did i give penn. enough of a chance? part of me wants to run to richmond, then the sensible side of me says stay put, i just got here. then the homesick side of me wants to run back home to the familiararity of long island. what do i do? i ask for opinions but the people i work with now say i should just follow my heart, well duh! but i just cant seem to figure out what it is telling me. any objective opinions out there?