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SmilesSoSweet
12-09-2005, 10:50 PM
Okay so the past two Friday nights I've actually been out, mainly to do Christmas shopping but then I also went out to dinner all by myself. It's getting boring. Now that I'm comfortable going to places by myself, I really don't want to keep doing this every weekend. I haven't been on an actual date in way over a year. Over six months here in Phoenix, and I'm in the same situation as I was in Southern California - dateless. Not that it's the end of the world or anything, I'm just bored of doing everything by myself.

and1grad
12-09-2005, 10:52 PM
Do you "put out?"

pisces2473
12-09-2005, 10:54 PM
You are VERY brave for going to dinner by yourself. I couldn't do that.

What about online dating??

GetMeOuttaDC
12-09-2005, 10:56 PM
Do you "put out?"

*smack*. No, Wilma respects herself.

I'm with Jen - do online dating, get female friends on Craigslist (it's better than hanging out alone), join activities and you can meet people there... Anyone with the confidence to go out to dinner alone shouldn't be dateless for long!

and1grad
12-09-2005, 10:58 PM
No, I mean..if she puts out with herself..it could make for a more interesting date.

"Oh my, i spent so much on dinner for myself...when i get myself home, i think i'm roundin the bases..."

Somethin like that.

GetMeOuttaDC
12-09-2005, 11:00 PM
No, I mean..if she puts out with herself..it could make for a more interesting date.

"Oh my, i spent so much on dinner for myself...when i get myself home, i think i'm roundin the bases..."

Somethin like that.

lmao! But seriously, if you were a woman, which baloney pony would you rather ride, a penis or your freakin' finger?

and1grad
12-09-2005, 11:02 PM
lmao! But seriously, if you were a woman, which baloney pony would you rather ride, a penis or your freakin' finger?
That question is a trap, isnt it? There's no way I can win by answering that.

jdt141
12-09-2005, 11:38 PM
That question is a trap, isnt it? There's no way I can win by answering that.

I think you should run back to the Batcave. I'm sure Robin is waiting for you :twisted:


I couldn't resist. :D

ebruening
12-09-2005, 11:45 PM
You guys are cracking me up! :D

and1grad
12-09-2005, 11:52 PM
Not sure where that came from but ok. I'm sure your robots long for your touch. I'm sure they'll give your Bigweld a "tweaking."

SmilesSoSweet
12-10-2005, 12:32 AM
Do you "put out?"

I couldn't stop from laughing at that one . . . and your other comments. Too funny!!!!

shimmer728
12-10-2005, 09:30 AM
[QUOTE=pisces2473]You are VERY brave for going to dinner by yourself. I couldn't do that.
QUOTE]

Me either!

lilyflower
12-10-2005, 09:37 AM
Wilma, I give you MAJOR credit for going to dinner by yourself - I couldn't do that.

XXdemerXX
12-10-2005, 09:39 AM
ahahahahaha

Do you "put out?"

and1grad
12-10-2005, 11:56 AM
jtd141 - high five!

OK, so off the perverted smut that every thread turns into when and1 posts.... Wilma, your problem is that you can't meet people? It sure doesn't sound like a confidence thing... I think anyone would want to at least hang out with someone who had the guts you do.

Were you just venting or did you want suggestions on that?
Its jdt...sigh..she cant even give props right. Well...at least she's only wrong once on this post. Thats below her average. :neutral:

WeirdBrake
12-10-2005, 12:00 PM
Its jdt...sigh..she cant even give props right. Well...at least she's only wrong once on this post. Thats below her average. :neutral:

WAY below her average! :twisted:

SmilesSoSweet
12-10-2005, 12:09 PM
OK, so off the perverted smut that every thread turns into when and1 posts.... Wilma, your problem is that you can't meet people? It sure doesn't sound like a confidence thing... I think anyone would want to at least hang out with someone who had the guts you do.

Were you just venting or did you want suggestions on that?

I guess I was just venting, but advice is always good too. I've done the online dating in the past. It wasn't from a personal's site but I would met guys in chat rooms. The last guy was my ex. I do have a personal ad on yahoo, but right now it unsearchable. I kept getting guys that were totally off from what I was looking for - mainly old, I mean OLD guys, and guys that weren't local. I guess I could just keep it active again.

I'm also really, really shy when it comes to meeting someone offline. I hesitate for a long time. With my ex, it was long distance (it wasn't something I wanted at first) but we'd talk on the phone almost every night for hours and I felt really comfortable when I met him in person. Don't get me wrong I have tons of guy friends and I'm comfortable around them, but that's just it, we're just friends. Some are married or dating someone, etc. but I can hang out with them without any problems. I think it's because I know they're already taken and I won't feel rejected from them because we're just friends hanging out. I don't know.

and1grad
12-10-2005, 12:10 PM
HA!! Of all the reasons I have to make fun of you, your dyslexia isnt one of em. Its more your being a smartass, a fact well-documented in the annals of QLC, that I choose to abuse you with. sigh...girls. OS sensitive.

and1grad
12-10-2005, 12:21 PM
4. Post the text of your yahoo personals ad here on QLC and get us to provide you feedback. We helped out CheshrCarol back in the day...
umm...Chesh is still single. *rolls eyes* You're really on fire today. EN FUEGO!!

GetMeOuttaDC
12-10-2005, 12:24 PM
umm...Chesh is still single. *rolls eyes* You're really on fire today. EN FUEGO!!

Yes, but her profile was in need of help, which I believe we gave it. It's not my fault the single guys in upstate NY are morons.

and1grad
12-10-2005, 12:28 PM
Who said Carol was looking for a "single" guy? :razz: