Why didn't you call me and tell me you were seeing someone?? HUH??!?!?

[MetFanL]

So, I gave this dude my numbers MONTHS ago. Months. It was the guy who invited me to a concert and then told me to wear black and white b/c I would be WORKING the event with him. I passed. Now, a month later, he calls again and I tell him I'm seeing someone. He goes "Why didn't you call me and tell me that?" WHAT!?! I've talked to you on the phone ONCE over a month ago and thought I made it clear that I wasn't interested. When I start dating someone, and I supposed to let everyone in my little black book know? Should I send up the bat signal?? WTF?

Rant over.

[midtwenty]

Wow, that guy isn't firing on all cylinders.

Just out of curiosity, how did you respond when he said that?

[MetFanL]

Pretty much what I wrote above. I just said "Are you serious? I've talked to you on the phone once. I don't even call people I KNOW and broadcast my personal life, so why would I call you. And, I haven't heard from you in months." He said he'd throw out my number, I said "Please do. Merry Christmas."

[midtwenty]

Awesome reply. Good for you.
What a dink. Good thing you passed 6 weeks ago. He could have been trouble.

[grneyedmustang]

Clearly this guy wasn't the sharpest knife in the drawer when he invited you to help him work on a date.

It's prolly better that you told him to throw away your number. And I LOVE the Merry Christmas at the end!!!

[Angyl]

Men are dumb. Kitties are nicer.

That's my theory for the day.

[mishl982]

Yea, that guy is on crack. How weird.

[Tayl405]

I don't understand people. Like, what was going on in his head (obv. not much) that he thought that would be an acceptable question to ask? People are SO STRANGE sometimes!!

[LakeJay]

Can't blame the guy for being pissed. He probably has to start taking down the shrine he was putting together ;)

By the way, Angyl, I'm not speaking for every guy but your theory for the day made me laugh. Thanks, I needed it.

[coll214]

What a clop-head. Did he think you've been waiting by the phone for the last month? Moron.

[taylor]

That was great. I've never heard of this kind of weirdo. I've had a guy wait a month after I gave him my number to call me. 3 days hun, you get three days and then you don't exist anymore.

Wow, I wonder if he was telling people he was in a relationship with you. Who knows what kind of twilight zone marathon was going on in his head.

[lorion11]

That story reminds me of this guy I've known for years. About a year and a half ago I gave him my number. He promised he would call... it took him five weeks to call the first time and he didn't ask me out. For the last year or so, I receive one or two e-mails a month from him saying he missed my e-mails and that "We should get together soon." No shit.. that's WHY I gave you my number. A few months ago I called him out and said that if he really wanted to go out, he would have found at least one free night in the last year.

What's funny, is that he will ask our mutual friend why a great girl like me doesn't have a boyfriend. :neutral:

[MetFanL]

Can't blame the guy for being pissed. He probably has to start taking down the shrine he was putting together ;)

Wow, I wonder if he was telling people he was in a relationship with you. Who knows what kind of twilight zone marathon was going on in his head.

I hadn't thought of that until you guys mentioned it... Eww...

[Bugsey34]

LOL. Hilarious.

[MetFanL]

*bump*

I got into work this morning to a FOUR MINUTE voicemail from this dude. I'm not kidding, I timed that sh*t. He feels bad about how the phone call went, we could be just friends or maybe it could be more even though I'm seeing someone, maybe I didn't get his other voicemails, he was going to be Santa at this place on thursday if I wanted to stop by, and on and on and on...

Oh. My. God.

[Chameleon]

Maybe he wants you to work as one of his elves? It would be par for the course...

[mishl982]

He feels bad about how the phone call went, we could be just friends or maybe it could be more even though I'm seeing someone
Ok that part just creeps me out.

[spokes]

met - perhaps i should explain my side of the story before everyone passes judgement on me.................. :p :D

[Skyblade]

That reminds me of a guy I went out with on a couple dates. Basically at the end of the 2nd date I said that I wasn't ready for a relationship so I didn't think it was going to work out. The next day he calls and asks, "I was wondering if you had changed your mind?"

[uscuba2]

*bump*

I got into work this morning to a FOUR MINUTE voicemail from this dude. I'm not kidding, I timed that sh*t. He feels bad about how the phone call went, we could be just friends or maybe it could be more even though I'm seeing someone, maybe I didn't get his other voicemails, he was going to be Santa at this place on thursday if I wanted to stop by, and on and on and on...

Oh. My. God.



Da*n, all I have to say is run, girl, run! Cann't you block a phone number from calling?

[curiousmaverick]

*bump*

I got into work this morning to a FOUR MINUTE voicemail from this dude. I'm not kidding, I timed that sh*t. He feels bad about how the phone call went, we could be just friends or maybe it could be more even though I'm seeing someone, maybe I didn't get his other voicemails, he was going to be Santa at this place on thursday if I wanted to stop by, and on and on and on...

Oh. My. God.

I'm not too highly experienced in dating, but I tend to move a bit slow because I never really dated much in highschool and what not. I usually like a guy for a month or 2 seeing them in school or whatnot and maybe flirting or whatnot before I ever expect anyone to make a move, in fact if it happens too quick I really feel odd as I really like that uncertainty time. Maybe this guy was just probably pissed and might have thought you liked him as much as he likes you and might have been confused that you didn't 'get his signals' he might have been sending you or whatnot (and that you might not have let on about on here). Maybe he just go the guts to just call you up out of the blue and when he heard you were dating someone else, he might have not prepared for rejection and the first thing that he thought of was that question he asked and he might have felt like an ass afterwards and awkard too. He might have just asked because he was confused and couldn't think of anything else to say. Point is, maybe he's just shy and inexperienced and doesn't really know how to handle these things.

He might really like you and just not know how to go about this in the right way and totally clueless that a 4 min message might just be too long.