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Jimsgrly
09-21-2001, 11:01 AM
I am wondering if anyone else has had this problem. My boyfriend just got back from being overseas for an entire year. Prior to him leaving, we had the relationship everyone else envied. We were always happy together, never fought, and were so much in love. During the year he was away, I flew overseas to see him for 2 weeks, we talked multiple times a day. He returned about 3 weeks ago and moved in with me. It has been nice, but nothing like it was before. We have been fighting lately. THings just arent the same. I used to get so excited to come home to see him before he left. Now, im just tired. Maybe its the stress that he is trying to find a job and me having to work. I am not sure. Has anyone had this problem before? Does it work out in the end? Is this just the beginning adjustment phase? THats what i think it is. I love him with all of my heart and want to marry him. I just hope it gets better. We both feel the same way. HELP!

Anonymous
10-08-2001, 04:43 PM
Is anyone out there? I was just looking for some advice. Hasnt anyone ever dated a man in the military or had a long distance relationship that finally became local?

Its really frustrating when no one replies!