Sex Tips: Girls, what DO you like?

[jdt141]

This might be bordering TMI... but, really - with the large number of ladies on this board, what DO you like in the bedroom?! Inquiring minds want to know :huge:

[RudeGirl]

Rim jobs, blindfolds, lesbian scissor sex, and four-ways.

Rrrrrow!

p.s. Everyone loves teh oralz. ;):

[dengeist]

Whoa! Hello!

Back beast...BACK!

[wordsmith]

Yeah, that's pretty much what I'm into, too.

[RudeGirl]

Yeah, that's pretty much what I'm into, too.

Dear Dubya-Smith:

Message board yuks are scientifically proven to be excellent for your blood pressure.

Hugs,

Rude-'G'

[jdt141]

Well so much for that idea! :rolleyes:

[Morgan81]

Well so much for that idea! :rolleyes:
What's wrong with RG's advice?
Everyone does love teh oralz.

[nomad93]

what do you like?? To Get off!!! Every chic is different. If you really want to impress her ask. Most men don't do enough of asking what we really want and not just doing what they have seen in porn or other places. She will be forever in debt to you, for the many nights of big Os.

[blueyes]

This is more 'DON'T' than 'DO'...but I figure it's useful anyway. And I'm using birthday carte blanche to mini-thread-jack. So there.

DON'T attempt a porn recreation without asking before hand. Springing something like that out of the blue - especially if it involves another person - is something like throwing someone in a pool. In January. (Unless, hey, you like things like that...and then by all means, go swimming.)

Oh. And don't guilt her in to sex. Of any kind. At any time.

(And the oral...? I highly recommend it as well. As for everything else, I'm going to politely refrain from posting a tell-all on myself. ;) )

[shimmer728]

Nine inches, baby. Nine inches. :twisted:

(I'm joking. And whoever said every woman is different is right on.)

[Cole]

yeah... every chick is gonna be different. I think #1 though is to start with good hygiene - nothing ruins the moment like bad breath or greasy hair. Eww. I also really like it when guys have soft hands - callused hands or rough fingernails do not feel good on smooth skin.

And always respect her. Period.

I know what I want changes from day to day, too. So check in with her now and then and don't always do the exact same thing once you've figured out something she likes.

I also really like leading up to things with a lot of kissing. Once people get into relationships sometimes they forget to make out and go straight to sex.

Um, okay. That's all I got for now.

[shinyleaf]

.... different preferences at different time of the month, too ( I find).

I like a bit of a challenge - so teasing/playing hard to get is good. It's just no fun if your man is fully seduced by a mere smirk on your face. But, I guess you would have to be pretty confident in your seduction-skillz for this to be a turn-on. Otherwise it might be anxiety-causing ("doesn't he think I'm sexy? Why isn't he all over me NOW?")

[meatwad]

I agree with Cole. Always respect her period. Run like the wind when that thing shows up. :twisted:

I like what Dante says in Clerks. "Guys are easy. Insert someplace warm, preferably moist, thrust, repeat."

[kimmer23]

I like to be left the hell alone! haha! j/k!

[and1grad]

Always respect her period. Run like the wind when that thing shows up. :twisted:

I like what Dante says in Clerks. "Guys are easy. Insert someplace warm, preferably moist, thrust, repeat."
I'm gonna hafta agree with everything said here. I also agree with whoever said it'd be better to know what not to do...like turn your bedroom into Cirque de Soleil.

[Cole]

wait, why are you running like hell away from me?

[wordsmith]

You guys are funny...the thread gets no responses to "What do girls like," so we move right on to "What does it for guys."

The only way to figure out what A girl likes is communcation and trial and error, and most importantly...paying attention to what gets results and what seems more "eh." There is no "what girls like."

[meatwad]

wait, why are you running like hell away from me?

Not you. Your Aunt Flo is cramping my style. :eek:

[nomad93]

To be there!!! There are things some men like better than others, but pretty much anything will do it. Just like chics though all men are different to, to find that one BIG thing they like talk and ask. If you are too chicken to ask, you should not be doing it in the first place.

[blueyes]

...like turn your bedroom into Cirque de Soleil.

I spit out my tea, and1. Thank you for my first birthday tea-spitting laughter.

To the OP, really...if you know the girl (this following advice won't apply to Random Girl you have located about 14 minutes ago in a bar/club/disco/smoky teahouse), you're going to have a fighting chance of doing something right. We're all generally anatomically the same, we're all vaguely gifted with the same general erogenous zones, and unless we say OUCH, NO, DON'T EVER DO THAT AGAIN...you're probably on the right track.

Logic then demands this...If you know her, then you can feel comfortable asking her questions, such as:
- do you enjoy Cirque de Soleil...in your bedroom?
- I know a local place that makes great riding crops.
- Is this too hot?

If it's Random Girl from bar/club/disco/smoky teahouse, you're on your own. I'd stick to the basics - but do the basics so well that she'll put your number on speed dial. :twisted:

[Bugsey34]

The only way to figure out what A girl likes is communcation and trial and error, and most importantly...paying attention to what gets results and what seems more "eh." There is no "what girls like."

Exactly. Try asking and trial and error.

[Illuminous]

The Boy asked me right when we started seeing each other. I told him. He did it. All. And well.

And I'm a very happy woman.

[and1grad]

He asked beforehand? Wow, thats a lil forward to me.

"So...in the event that I'm giving u the iggedy in the bumskiggedy*, what type of maneuver(s) do you fancy?"

There should be a quiz that clues you in.

Whats your favorite movie?
A. Fast & Furious
B. Bend It Like Beckham
C. Must Love Dogs
D. Bull Durham
E. Toy Story

*Shout out to Das Efx

[wordsmith]

And if somebody's fave is Futurama, you know you've got probs.

[meatwad]

Just get the girl to go from the reverse pile driver to the rusty trombone. :eek:

[and1grad]

And if somebody's fave is Futurama, you know you've got probs.
No write-ins. Sigh....SUCH an editor.

[Cole]

Not you. Your Aunt Flo is cramping my style. :eek:

Not mine, dude. I wasn't the one who made the period comment. Flo is on vacay for me for another couple of weeks.

[Rocksiren]

Okay *looks around sheepishly* the guys I have been with try to be really gentle with the chest area and I like it a little rough there. And yes, many guys dont ask.

[jdt141]

Hey i was just asking to see what the girls on here liked. Nobody bit. I know you ask when dealing with specifics, but I just wanted to see. :frustrate :

[and1grad]

And always respect her. Period.
Sigh...Nicole Nicole Nicole. Meat was riffing on this comment.

[Cole]

oh. right. :redface:

I only got like 5 hours of sleep last night, I'm not very quick with the pick up today.

I just don't want anyone telling boys to run away from me. :rolleyes:

[Deavan]

See since i am not a fan of sex it is all about me finding a guy who is all about ORAL, ORAL, ORAL (as in giving ME some not getting a bj all the time since as a guy you WILL get off once you have intercourse with me whereas Intercourse does NOTHING for me)

[Empressallie]

mmm what do women like? hmmm i LOVE when a guy holds my face in his hand when he kisses me. Its just so sweet. I like light little touches just about anywhere. I like the foreplay to last for awhile, i think that time i almost more intimate. I think a little talking/joking/whatever kinda makes it more fun. Sex doesnt always have to be serious! I also like just plain old making out. Everyone needs a good makeout session!

Overall, I say read the signs, if she starts like breathing faster and seems really excited keep doing EXACTLY what youre doing. Lots of guys take a girl heating up a little to mean "do everything harder and faster". Not so.

Dislikes: Being rammed into the headboard. Ow.
2 min man - too quick
2 HOUR man - hello that hurts after that long
Guys that expect you to have condoms. I take bc. You get the condoms.

[Cole]

I'm gonna hafta say ditto on all of the above.

I also really like it when guy makes eye contact and smiles at me during sex. Well, and any other time, too. :)

[shinyleaf]

[QUOTE=Empressallie]

Overall, I say read the signs, if she starts like breathing faster and seems really excited keep doing EXACTLY what youre doing. Lots of guys take a girl heating up a little to mean "do everything harder and faster". Not so.

[QUOTE]


This can NOT be overstated! :huge:

[wordsmith]

Somebody who is NOT stuck on routine...nothing more disappointing than a guy who thinks sex consists of one and one position only, has got a prescribed series of moves down pat, and does not waver from them. Um, no. Sex needs to be go with the flow (not that flow, sickos), spontaenous, and with variety. Not "I'm gonna stick this year, thrust, repeat as needed, withdraw, turn over, and snore." Snore, indeed.

[Morgan81]

Somebody who is NOT stuck on routine...nothing more disappointing than a guy who thinks sex consists of one and one position only, has got a prescribed series of moves down pat, and does not waver from them. Um, no. Sex needs to be go with the flow (not that flow, sickos), spontaenous, and with variety. Not "I'm gonna stick this year, thrust, repeat as needed, withdraw, turn over, and snore." Snore, indeed.
A lot of times I have gotten the vibe that that's what the lovely lady wants. I'm all about asking, but ladies, don't be afraid to pipe up and tell us.
By the way, NOTHING is hotter than a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to issue a few orders every now and again.

[Deni81]

mmm what do women like? hmmm i LOVE when a guy holds my face in his hand when he kisses me. Its just so sweet. I like light little touches just about anywhere. I like the foreplay to last for awhile, i think that time i almost more intimate. I think a little talking/joking/whatever kinda makes it more fun. Sex doesnt always have to be serious! I also like just plain old making out. Everyone needs a good makeout session!

Overall, I say read the signs, if she starts like breathing faster and seems really excited keep doing EXACTLY what youre doing. Lots of guys take a girl heating up a little to mean "do everything harder and faster". Not so.

Dislikes: Being rammed into the headboard. Ow.
2 min man - too quick
2 HOUR man - hello that hurts after that long
Guys that expect you to have condoms. I take bc. You get the condoms.

I also love make-out sessions. Guys seem to just want to get to the sex part, remember guys that foreplay is a GOOD thing.

If you are going to pin against the wall....please be careful not to slam me too hard on the wall.

[RudeGirl]

Nine inches, baby. Nine inches. :twisted:

Yes. That's good!

One type of guy I don't do is the type who won't wear condoms. I've heard everything from "I'm sterile," to "It'll only be in for a bit." It doesn't matter. You wear 'em, and I'll even pay for 'em. Condoms are quite cheap compared to the havoc wreaked on a person's physical and mental well-being by the Pill.

[and1grad]

"It'll only be in for a bit."
I cant imagine this being the smartest thing to say at that moment. "You wont feel a thing."

[jdt141]

I cant imagine this being the smartest thing to say at that moment. "You wont feel a thing."


LOL. Talk about letting her expectations down. :huge:

[meatwad]

oh. right. :redface:

I only got like 5 hours of sleep last night, I'm not very quick with the pick up today.

I just don't want anyone telling boys to run away from me. :rolleyes:

I'd never do that, silly pants. ;):

[leslie23]

I'm one of those that doesn't "get off" on penetration. So I prefer oral..

HOWEVER..

I have recently found the not-exactly-sexual acts to be WAY hotter than the deed itself. The guy that I've been seeing does this thing where he softly rubs his lips, nose, cheek.. against my bare back and the back of my neck and it gives me goosebumps everytime. I also love it when he lightly brushes his fingertips across my stomach.. arms.. whatever. It's just.. wow.

[wordsmith]

There's a LOT of sensual stuff that has nothing to do with penetration that is H.O.T. *shivers*

[Feverish]

i like a man who will actually ask me what i like- it shows he is man enough to handle me and really wants to please me as best he can.

[ebruening]

Maybe I'm a bit odd in that I find noises to be incredibly sexy. One that gets me every time is the noise a guy's lips make when he's kissing my neck. I like listening to the noise his hands make when he's rubbing my back, or giving me a neck massage. I also like having a guy's hands on my hips when we're kissing while standing up. I adore having my lower back massaged during a makeout session. That's very nice. One thing that makes me shudder in loathing is when a guy starts nibbling at my ears, or even worse, decides to clean out my ears with his tongue. I don't think of anything other than, "stop, stop, stop! Gross!" Maybe that's further evidence for my weirdness.

One more thing: since I like noises, I immensely enjoy hearing certain noises during sex :rolleyes: :redface:

[wordsmith]

Hah! I like ear stuff!

I like pretty much everything done in a makeout session. I'm very tactile.

[Empressallie]

I just get paranoid with the ear thing. Like, i clean my ears regularlly, but still....ughhh...

I also like the noise thing. Ya gotta get ALL the senses involved.

[old_school_soul]

Call me weird, but I like to fellate a woman's nose. In fact, if I could fellate my own nose, I'd never leave the house.

[blueyes]

Oh, the lower back thing? Killer turn-on. No, really. I become completely spellbound and incapable of thinking beyond the sensations.

I'm a tactile slave. I swear. My friends claim this is supported, verified, and observable when I walk through any store - I touch all the things with interesting textures. They also claim this is why I own so much leather. :redface: :lol:

[wordsmith]

I'm extremely touchy feely.

I can't date a touch-me-not. I've tried. It sucks.

[blueyes]

I feel you on that one, Words. I always wonder how someone could be wired so as to be a touch-me-not.

Another area that really gets me is that soft skin on the underside of my arms. I have no idea why, though...lots of nerve endings?! Oh, and my sides. Picture the area between your hip and your rib cage, just on the side of your body...ridiculously sensational.

[wordsmith]

I feel you on that one, Words. I always wonder how someone could be wired so as to be a touch-me-not.

Not being picked up as a baby.




KIDDING!!!!!



Another area that really gets me is that soft skin on the underside of my arms. I have no idea why, though...lots of nerve endings?! Oh, and my sides. Picture the area between your hip and your rib cage, just on the side of your body...ridiculously sensational.

I think I have an overabundance of nerve endings, pretty much everywhere.

[blueyes]

it's nice to be biologically wired. :huge:

[labrat2111]

I think I have an overabundance of nerve endings, pretty much everywhere.

I think I do too but it just makes me really easy to tickle. Mean girls use that to their advantage.

I do notice though that most girls respond real well to just very lightly running my fingers over their back and arms.

[blueyes]

I do notice though that most girls respond real well to just very lightly running my fingers over their back and arms.
IMO, it's all about the pressure and the manner of your touch - a heavy handed touch is likely to get me to eye you over my shoulder with a WTF look, while a feather light teasing touch is going to get you another over the shoulder look...such as 'come here right now'. :twisted:

[wordsmith]

*raises hand*

Another fan of light touches.

[hoodie]

I have to throw in a hearty "yeah!" to everyone who's mentioned making out and foreplay. Yespleasetons. It seems like after a few months couples want to skip the appetizer and go straight for the main course. Yet, not to throw a wrench into what I just said, but I also like crazy "gotta-have-it-now" style quickies, the kind where you just madly get each other's pants off and go nuts. I am kind of lazy with initiating (I know, I know, I shouldn't be) so I really like being seduced. I like him to start it off. I love having my neck kissed, being touched while still wearing underwear, and doggy style. I also like changes in speed and intensity during sex, it keeps me on my toes. This is gonna sound awful, but I'm the "no condom" girl. I definitely believe in safe sex until you've been monogamous for a long while, and I believe both parties should get tested for EVERYTHING before you go there, but the feel of skin on skin minus rubber is gorgeous. I also love hearing a guy moan when I'm going down on him...a little bit of noise gets me going too.

[Morgan81]

I have to throw in a hearty "yeah!" to everyone who's mentioned making out and foreplay. Yespleasetons. It seems like after a few months couples want to skip the appetizer and go straight for the main course. Yet, not to throw a wrench into what I just said, but I also like crazy "gotta-have-it-now" style quickies, the kind where you just madly get each other's pants off and go nuts. I am kind of lazy with initiating (I know, I know, I shouldn't be) so I really like being seduced. I like him to start it off. I love having my neck kissed, being touched while still wearing underwear, and doggy style. I also like changes in speed and intensity during sex, it keeps me on my toes. This is gonna sound awful, but I'm the "no condom" girl. I definitely believe in safe sex until you've been monogamous for a long while, and I believe both parties should get tested for EVERYTHING before you go there, but the feel of skin on skin minus rubber is gorgeous. I also love hearing a guy moan when I'm going down on him...a little bit of noise gets me going too.
God bless you..... [wipes tear from eye]

:cool:

[and1grad]

God bless you..... [wipes tear from eye]

:cool:
LOL! :lol:

[blueyes]

I'm also going to throw this one out there...big fan of shower + guy + me. Big fan. :twisted: :D

[Cole]

I LOVE making out. I could do it for hours, just like in high school.

And it sends shivers down my spine when a guy kisses the back of my neck. ;)

[Deni81]

I'm also going to throw this one out there...big fan of shower + guy + me. Big fan. :twisted: :D


Yes!!! I was a showering with a boyfriend virgin until about a few months ago. I love it!!

[hoodie]

Thanks Morgan. :)

[spokes]

personally i just try and put myself in her shoes and i think to myself what i would like if i was a girl.

also one can usually never really go wrong exploring gently (finger, tongue, featehr etc) and paying attention to her reactions..........

Beside, i persoanlly really like heading "south of the equator"........

[Morgan81]

Thanks Morgan. :)No, no, no.
Thank you . :razz: