EVERYTHING just fell apart

[Anonymous]

This summer my father almost died, my sister (who I hate anyway) has cancer and my cat died recently.

I am feeling so low that I am trying to grip onto the only thing I have left - my boyfriend. I'm so scared of losing him that I am actually making it happen. I'm always worried when he is out with his friends and then when he gets home all I can do is question him.

Its a bit messed up really.

[hope]

Hang in there. How long have you been with your boyfriend and has he been supportive through what you're going through?

I know about questioning the boyfriend, and doing that usually upsets me and just aggravates my boyfriend.

[hope]

Hang in there. How long have you been with your boyfriend and has he been supportive through what you're going through?

I know about questioning the boyfriend, and doing that usually upsets me and just aggravates my boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

I know this sounds trite, but there is some truth to the old saying, "it's always darkest before the dawn." Things seem really rough, but it won't last forever.

I can relate to what you're going thro, esp the whole questioning-the-bf stuff. I went thro a lot of that last year. I felt like he was the only thing I had. To be honest, leaving him was one of the best things I have done in a while. But I don't mean to sound like a doomsayer - I don't know your personal situation. All I'm saying is, hang in there; right now you are understandably stressed out, but things will work out for you in the end.