Second Cancellation

[bluup10]

We were supposed to have a second date on Tuesday. He cancelled. We re-scheduled for tonight. He cancelled again.

What's up? Shall I just forget about him? Or give him another chance?

[PenforPrez]

I would say one more chance. Then again, I've given twelveth and thirteenth chances, so maybe not. :)

[bluup10]

The worst is that he sms me! I could've handled a phone call but an sms is just so mean... Or am I being a drama queen?

[WorkInProgress]

sms?

Did he give you what sound like good, logical, plausible reasons? (Car trouble, long day at work, sick dog, etc.)

[grneyedmustang]

I say forget him. But my view of dating is somewhat cynical and jaded (see my siggy if needed).

Especially since he didn't even have the decency to call. :mad:

[Ciderhillnh]

Why did he have to cancel? He at least let you know way ahead of time, or just minutes before?

Id say try one last time, if he bails again not worth the time and effort.

[winneythepooh7]

Someone who plays these kind of games this early on is not worth it.

[bluup10]

Hey.

He cancelled way ahead of time but we never really confirmed times, etc. He just said he wants to take me to a nice place and that was it.

When he cancelled the first time, he called. I so hate sms! That's why I rarely give out my cell number to guys. I give them my home number. And I think from now on, I'll tell them I don't have a cellphone.

He did say that he's having a week from hell. I had one of those just last week but would've been up for a drink or two still. Well, we;re not all the same, now, are we? One more chance and that's that.

[Winter Storm]

He did say that he's having a week from hell. I had one of those just last week but would've been up for a drink or two still. Well, we;re not all the same, now, are we? One more chance and that's that.
I think that is fair. Some weeks are just hell.

[bluup10]

I think that is fair. Some weeks are just hell.

Yeah, shame. He paid someone in advance to do a job and that person ran away with close to $2000!!! So now he's got to fix the job and find someone else who's reliable to do it. Oy.

[bluup10]

Well, it's been 4 days since I last heard from him, so I'll have to write him off... Pity. I liked him.