shoud I or shouldn't I

[uscuba2]

ok, so on this past thursday I went to a baseball game with about 25 people ( friends of friends, so I didn't know everyone) and end meeting beth. we flirting a bit throughout the game. So after the game a few of us go to a couple bars We are all pretty wasted. so at the last one we are making out before I leave and she tells me to call her later. so I call her yesterday and goes to VMX and I do n't leave message (my mistake). So last second tonight I get a call to bartend a wedding. Well, oddly enough she's there and I tell her I called but it went straight to vmx. Well, she says that she doesn't remeber how she to the bars and what happened or how she got home. so should I even waste my time?

[stonemonkey]

You're like Bill Murray in Groundhog Day. I dunno, depends what you want to get out of it. Seems like she's a party girl out for a bit of fun, and that's cool if that's what you want too. I guess if you want something more serious you have to catch her sober. Anyway, there's no reason you can't start again from a clean slate, at least you have some idea what she's like which is to your advantage.

[bluup10]

Well, what was the rest of the conversation? Did she seem keen to talk to you? You've got her number, right? So give it another go and call it quits if she doesn't respond.

[wordsmith]

Do you ever hook up with anybody who isn't a braindead twit party girl? That might be a step in the right direction.

[winneythepooh7]

It sounds like a college hook-up. I mean, if that's your thing, cool. But something serious? Doesn't look that way.........

[dengeist]

Yeah, her lack of memory is telling here. Didn't you see that one movie "Kids?" You hooked up a little bit but it doesn't sound that serious.

[LaFille]

i'm sorry, but her convenient memory block sounds like a pretty lame excuse... i think she seems sketchy.

[spokes]

YDidn't you see that one movie "Kids?"

as an aside is this not a line from guilty conscience with eminem and dr. dre?

[dengeist]

as an aside is this not a line from guilty conscience with eminem and dr. dre?

Yes and someone in that story is having a "guilty conscience."

[spokes]

for the benefits of those of us who have not seen kids, can you give us the 411?

also if you have any insight on the "porono with son dubious" that would be greatly appreciate (I sure hope i did not butcher the lyrics much).

[dengeist]

You haven't seen Kids? It's a 1995 documentary styled film about a group of teenagers in NYC. I don't want to give it away, but I'd have to for my point to be understood. Young Rosario Dawson and Chloe Sevigny star in it. You can pick up Kids from Best Buy for $10.

It's basically a "day in the life" movie. It's centered on a group of boys and a group of girls living in NYC. It's revealed that one of the girls is HIV+ and she got it from one of the boys. The boys go around taking drugs and fighting. At the end the two groups meet up at a party and take drugs. One of the boys sleeps with the girl with HIV while she's unconscious, then passes out. He wakes up at the end and says, "WHAT HAPPEND!?" not knowing he now has HIV or that he raped the girl and that's how it ends.

It's a powerful, yet disturbing film. I guess if you saw the movie the lyrics would make more sense. I'm guessing that the lyrics are implying that it's dangerous behavior, but Eminem is unaware that this could happen to him.

The Son Doobiest thing is about a rapper that starred in a porno (no I haven't seen the porno). I'm guessing that further reinforces that Eminem is unaware of how dangerous that kind of behavior is.

[fearlesss]

dude, she is playing you. at somepoint she's going to call you to mess with you.forget her.