chicagogirl
10-04-2006, 04:43 PM
Hey all! I figure I'll post the 1st thread in this new friends sub-forum. Really, I just need to vent.
A close friend of mine has been single since July. Her bf broke up with her after a little over a year and she always goes from one guy to another very quickly. The last time, she was single for maybe two months between 2 long term relationships. She's gone through some stressful stuff (some good, like starting a new job) and she was really falling apart near the end of the relationship. Like, 3 of us would get together and she would just ball the entire time, every week on schedule. Basically she was treating my friend and I like therapists. The thing is, she always does the same stuff with men, always follows the same pattern of behavior. Finally, when she freaked out in the doctor's office, the doctor talked with her about seeing a therapist (hallelujah). She's been putting off seeing a therapist for about 2 months now. She and I even talked and she said that she knows she can't start datign agian until she's worked out things in her life. So what does she do? She's dating again. Of course. Has she even started to look for a therapist? No. I'm just so frustrated! I know she's going to follow the same pattern as before and then start falling apart. gaaaaahh! :mad:
A close friend of mine has been single since July. Her bf broke up with her after a little over a year and she always goes from one guy to another very quickly. The last time, she was single for maybe two months between 2 long term relationships. She's gone through some stressful stuff (some good, like starting a new job) and she was really falling apart near the end of the relationship. Like, 3 of us would get together and she would just ball the entire time, every week on schedule. Basically she was treating my friend and I like therapists. The thing is, she always does the same stuff with men, always follows the same pattern of behavior. Finally, when she freaked out in the doctor's office, the doctor talked with her about seeing a therapist (hallelujah). She's been putting off seeing a therapist for about 2 months now. She and I even talked and she said that she knows she can't start datign agian until she's worked out things in her life. So what does she do? She's dating again. Of course. Has she even started to look for a therapist? No. I'm just so frustrated! I know she's going to follow the same pattern as before and then start falling apart. gaaaaahh! :mad: