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spikerags
10-31-2006, 12:10 AM
Quick turnaround on a "crisis" I know.

Guys thanks for your help.

I sat down with a best friend, and hashed this out and found I am not in love at all. In some ways, my feelings for her were just a way of missing college. In addition, I could do better than her. I think we ALL can and DESERVE better than what we feel we are willing to settle for. We should all swing for the fences. Its been an emotional night. But I feel alive again. I'm not dying, in fact the future is brighter than ever. Heck, a law firm is paying me 1700/ week, and then 105 K to start when I graduate (and it is a lifestyle law firm, 1800 minimum with incentives kicking in after that). I'm in the best shape of my life. I'll probably trade my lancer in for an SL500 2005 when I graduate.

NOW, I am NOT saying this to brag. Really, I'm not. I just think that we quarterlifers need to move on, and grabe life by the horns. If we all look hard enough, we all have a lot going for us. We live in one of the few countries in the world where we can pursue our dreams and not be shot for it. Good things do come our way. By the way, this job was the second one I interviewed for, so I didn't even have to kill myself for it. What a blessing.

So, Qlifers, 'til our next "crisis" which I am sure will not be a whole lot bigger than a hill of beans.

Thanks

Spike rags
cache
10-31-2006, 11:08 AM
The 12 hour QLC? LOL
wordsmith
10-31-2006, 11:18 AM
Hah, in the space of 24 hours, this situation went from "I have never felt about anyone the way I have felt about her" to "I hashed this out and found I am not in love at all." Bizarre.
WorkInProgress
10-31-2006, 11:19 AM
Yeah. Weird.
old_school_soul
10-31-2006, 11:20 AM
cough Bi-Polar cough.
CTGirl
10-31-2006, 11:26 AM
cough Bi-Polar cough.

heehee my thoughts exactly.

I'm gald you got your issues worked out though, good for you.
LaFille
10-31-2006, 02:26 PM
congrats. holy crap, i wish i could solve all my problems just by talking to a friend.
dddork
10-31-2006, 02:30 PM
now give me her friendster address and let me mack on her..

thankyou!
cache
10-31-2006, 04:21 PM
I think Indian girls are about the prettiest girls on the planet, but I'm afraid to date any of them because I saw this show on TV one time where the parents of this girl had her boyfriend killed because she wouldn't dump him.

This is a joke, right? In that case, I better not date any Italians, because I watched the Sporanos and... :rolleyes:
cache
10-31-2006, 04:53 PM
Yeah, it was meant to be silly. Sorry. Your sarcasm would've been great if only I had been serious.

I figured as much :razz: ...were you talking about that family in Canada and India, and they were trying to do cross border prosecution on them? I read a few things on that....messed up story.
dddork
10-31-2006, 10:59 PM
I think Indian girls are about the prettiest girls on the planet, but I'm afraid to date any of them because I saw this show on TV one time where the parents of this girl had her boyfriend killed because she wouldn't dump him.


yup.. don't go for Indian girls ever EVER MAN!!

i like to keep all of them for myself!!