Who do we let see us hurt?

[Sam]

I am finding that of late, most of my friends don't get me. They don't understand what it is like. I just graduated from the University have no job, lots of interested companies, not offers, and I have not place to live. I have no place to feel safe. I am constantly comforting my friends but, they don't really comfort me. has this happened to anyone else? It seems Like I am the only one who isn't allowed to have a nervous breakdown. Some of you may sugest going home, well I got kicked out. So, I am for the first time "ALONE", I am living on one of my friends couch until I can find a job. But, I don;t think he gets what it means to really have nothing to do. I have no responsbilities right now, and that scares me. HAs anyone else gone through the same issue. Please let me and others know, don't just view this post, reply!!

[manicmonkie]

Sam, I've been through something similar. I kicked myself out of my mom's house at the age of 18 and started living on my friend's couch. I didn't think anybody understood me so I shut everybody out. To this day, there's only one person who truly understands what I"m going through. Everybody else around me seems to expect me to know how to handle every situation without any guidance whatsoever. Feel free to im me if you want to talk.

[aldwin26]

There is no problem with living on a couch ! I've done it and now back on it again after making numerous mistakes in my life. The truth is living on a couch does not tells you on who you are. Should be proud that you have the guts to hang in there. I did not kicked out but rather being on a home where happiness does not exist and that there were no future that lies on front of me and that's why I took the iniative to challenge myself. I am going to leave again very soon and probably live on a couch again until I find a job or go back to school whichever goes first. Hang in there dude, you got your college degree to fall onto and it helps.