to write or not to write......

[Krissy2006]

I haven't talked to this one girl in a long time. We kinda just stopped being friends, I had tried to reach her via email to no avail. I was wondering if I should write on her facebook to congratulate her for her admission into teachers college. What would u all do?... will this be too awkward?

[ScottyTheBody]

I haven't talked to this one girl in a long time. We kinda just stopped being friends, I had tried to reach her via email to no avail. I was wondering if I should write on her facebook to congratulate her for her admission into teachers college. What would u all do?... will this be too awkward?

Extending a congratulations, especially on facebook won't be awkward. I think you should do it.

[aggiegrad05]

Extending a congratulations, especially on facebook won't be awkward. I think you should do it.
Ditto. That's what facebook's for.

[Krissy2006]

only problem is I would have to add her to my facebook before I could post on her wall. I have another girl who has the same situation should I just add them? or leave it be?

[ScottyTheBody]

only problem is I would have to add her to my facebook before I could post on her wall. I have another girl who has the same situation should I just add them? or leave it be?

Yeah sure, just add them.

[Krissy2006]

even tho it has been solong since we're spoken? and I believe they are upset with me?

[veniqe]

Whichever way you decide to use, contact her.

[ScottyTheBody]

even tho it has been solong since we're spoken? and I believe they are upset with me?

Yeah. If they are REALLY upset with you, then they won't take the offer to be friends on facebook. Facebook is the place to catch up with friends that you haven't spoken to in a while. I just had someone that I hadn't seen since kindergarten add me, its really not as big of a deal as it seems. At first it may seem a little nerve racking but all you have to do is click a button on the screen and then its out of your hands. Much simpler than it seems. I say go for it. If nothing comes of it, you will have wasted the time to click a button and if a friendship does follow then it would have definitely been worth it.

[Wonder Woman]

Sure, why not? Just tell her congrats. See what she says in reply. You're being sincere, nothing wrong w/that.

[Krissy2006]

well I did it!... And one replied enthusiastically wantitng to get togehter, the other, just said thank you hoped I was doing well, and wished me luck on my finals.... do I leave it at that?

[Krissy2006]

anybody?

[Krissy2006]

I am unsure as to whether or not I should act as tho things are ok, or to be a bit reserved?

[Krissy2006]

well ya I mean they are, but its weird we haven't talked in almost a year.. just like that... I stopped talking to her, and she stopped talking to me, I was going through a rough time, and she never bothered to call me. Anyways I just wrote her and wished her the same, and told her to take care.. too aloof?

[Krissy2006]

well I wrote her again in response to her msg, nothing major just like wish you the best of luck on finals... leave it at that? Or make the next step (phone call?) make an effort to see her?

[ScottyTheBody]

well I wrote her again in response to her msg, nothing major just like wish you the best of luck on finals... leave it at that? Or make the next step (phone call?) make an effort to see her?

If you want to see her, then I think you should call her. Also don't appear a bit reserved, just pretend that these problems didn't really happen (or they're in the distant past), relax, don't think "what if she's thinking this or that", and just have fun.

[Krissy2006]

thank u :)... Its true I really shouldn't act as if anything happened cause nothing happened lol... we just stopped talking... on my accord at first and hers later. I havne't recieved a response yet.. but I"m not holding my breath. We'll just see what happens. I don't really want to get together with her, but I do want us to be civil which I believe we will be or at least hope so.