robinhood2003
02-10-2008, 05:36 PM
Ok....here's an update to that thread:
Well, this past weekend, I went to OH to see if my fiance and I can patch things up.....she wasn't receptive to many things.....I asked if she would rather me stay at a hotel....and she said, "it's up to you".....
....I took our to dinner (and paid for both)....went to the movies.....then I asked her that question....so why are you wearing my engagement ring if you're not sure? By you wearing that ring, you're telling everyone that you're committed......
.....then we get into this big drawn out argument with her crying and I'm crying.....then I storm out of the car......then she drives and leaves me stranded for almost seven hours....the mall was closing, I had to walk to her apartment bldg......she came back home drunk......my phone died so that I couldn't get a cab.....no where to go.....
...we get into her apt....I pour out my feelings...she then tells me that she is physically attracted to this guy that is married and having kids with another woman.....and the only reason why is b/c he said that she's sexy......and then she tells me that I should more experimentive in the bedroom like we use to (no...it's not threesomes or anything like that).....alot of different positions, etc....
....so we end up making love......then this morning we wake up....I missed my flight to get back to Miami for a business trip.......luckily I was able to get another flight.......then on the way to the airport...we get into another arguement b/c she took back all that she said last night....I told her that I felt used....I told her that it's not just sex....it's more than that.....I told her that if she wants to end our relationship of 8 years with no friendship...to keep this attitude.....then she keeps going back and forth......telling me that she is willing to try.....or that she doesn't want to try.....then when we get to the airport....I told her that if she doesn't want to try to give me back the ring...she refuses.....I keep asking her...and she gets into a fit.....and then she finally gives me the ring and leaves......
....and I still love her.....am I wrong to think that....or is it that I don't want to face that it's over.....? Now the worse part...is that I can't return the ring back to the jewler b/c I passed the return policy......so now what?
......I'm sooo heart broken over this......
....any advice?
Well, this past weekend, I went to OH to see if my fiance and I can patch things up.....she wasn't receptive to many things.....I asked if she would rather me stay at a hotel....and she said, "it's up to you".....
....I took our to dinner (and paid for both)....went to the movies.....then I asked her that question....so why are you wearing my engagement ring if you're not sure? By you wearing that ring, you're telling everyone that you're committed......
.....then we get into this big drawn out argument with her crying and I'm crying.....then I storm out of the car......then she drives and leaves me stranded for almost seven hours....the mall was closing, I had to walk to her apartment bldg......she came back home drunk......my phone died so that I couldn't get a cab.....no where to go.....
...we get into her apt....I pour out my feelings...she then tells me that she is physically attracted to this guy that is married and having kids with another woman.....and the only reason why is b/c he said that she's sexy......and then she tells me that I should more experimentive in the bedroom like we use to (no...it's not threesomes or anything like that).....alot of different positions, etc....
....so we end up making love......then this morning we wake up....I missed my flight to get back to Miami for a business trip.......luckily I was able to get another flight.......then on the way to the airport...we get into another arguement b/c she took back all that she said last night....I told her that I felt used....I told her that it's not just sex....it's more than that.....I told her that if she wants to end our relationship of 8 years with no friendship...to keep this attitude.....then she keeps going back and forth......telling me that she is willing to try.....or that she doesn't want to try.....then when we get to the airport....I told her that if she doesn't want to try to give me back the ring...she refuses.....I keep asking her...and she gets into a fit.....and then she finally gives me the ring and leaves......
....and I still love her.....am I wrong to think that....or is it that I don't want to face that it's over.....? Now the worse part...is that I can't return the ring back to the jewler b/c I passed the return policy......so now what?
......I'm sooo heart broken over this......
....any advice?