Is this the type of woman men want?

[Sweetheart82]

I was in a bad relationship with my first bf needless to say he was abusive and it was over for me. Later on down the road he began dating this girl who I'll call Susan. She was this beautiful creature very innocent niave shy withdrawn. Despite my mission to save her I got chewed out for being jealous. They broke up months later. Years later she and I became friends. I tried my hand at dating "Joe" only to wind up being used for the "black experience" come to find out he broke up with me to date Susan without her knowledge.
Now here is the question that begs to be answered do men like the innocent passive niavette virginal types?

[koolkat1980]

Nah, it depends on the guy and what his motivations are! Some guys like bad girls and skanks. Other guys prefer virginal innocent types that are acceptable to meet mummy.

Depends on his goals and aspirations and his motives for persuing the relationship in the first place. (And believe me.....a lot of guys have no goal or aspirations....they just date for the sake of dating, some like to just go with the flow and see how it goes).

[lonestar5805]

It's different for different guys. As for me, I'd say on a scale of 1 - 10, 1 being the sweet, innocent virgin-type, and 10 being the skanktress, I would prefer a 4 or 5 in the sacale, but most likely more towards 1.

[yogaflame13]

I'm sure you can find some guys who do....everyone is different, can't really pigeonhole anyones dating preferences, because all girls and all guys are not anywhere close to being the same in enough ways to make such a study particularly relevant.

[allie1105]

I don't quite think "innocent virgin type" is what they are looking for - but I DO believe that when a guy wants to be involved in a long term relationship or marriage, they don't want to be with the party girl they meet at the bar...they want to find the sweet, girl next door that can be brought home to mom.

[wordsmith]

"Men" don't have "a type." Neither do women for that matter. Each has probably more than one type, and everyone's tastes are slightly different.

There isn't any point in trying to cater to somebody's individual type, anyway...if it's not you, that's going to show. Besides, a lot of people have ended up with people they wouldn't have predicted because they don't fit an archetype. Attraction is less black and white than all that.

[MLMaestro]

Not necessarily the type you described...but the girl-next-door type nonetheless. :p

[AsianGeek]

Yeah I do tend to favor sweet girls. A lot of it is a feeling that I'll have her support and that "awww she's so cute I just wanna kiss her" feeling.

[erika36]

It probably depends on the guy. If he's a party-type not looking for a commitment, he might be more likely to choose the "bad girl". If he's looking for a relationship he might lean more toward the "innocent" girl. But there are people in relationships that can be pretty wild too, so I really don't know. :p

[sound chaser]

I was in a bad relationship with my first bf needless to say he was abusive and it was over for me. Later on down the road he began dating this girl who I'll call Susan. She was this beautiful creature very innocent niave shy withdrawn. Despite my mission to save her I got chewed out for being jealous. They broke up months later. Years later she and I became friends. I tried my hand at dating "Joe" only to wind up being used for the "black experience" come to find out he broke up with me to date Susan without her knowledge.
Now here is the question that begs to be answered do men like the innocent passive niavette virginal types?

It's all relative. Everything in life is subjective.

[Lucky13]

Now here is the question that begs to be answered do men like the innocent passive niavette virginal types?


I don't believe there is a fair way to answer that question...even coming from a female. Thats kind of like asking...do women like bad boys??? well yeah of course but do ALL women like bad boys...not at all. From the other responses people have posted yeah I think it does depend on the individual and their standards. Over all I would think the guy would want someone that he has respect for. "Joe" doesn't sound like someone that respected you if he dated you for the "black experience". And I'm sorry that you had to deal with that. I've been down that road myself and its no party but just remember not every "joe" is gonna be like that one. So from that aspect don't give up. Back to what you were asking...my final answer is no...ALL guys don't like the passive niavette virginal types.