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Jbeau
02-06-2005, 10:36 PM
hello all! i guess i'll just vent here as i'm not sure how this works...
i'm a teacher at a school where "spirit" is a foreign word and the staff looks at you as if you have three heads if you dare say "good morning!" to them; the principal believes that "professionals" do not need positive feedback about their work in order to work effectively, but should focus only on what they need to improve. my particular position receives absolutely NO respect from anyone: the students are forced to take my class and they resent it, the parents don't care about what i'm teaching because they don't feel it is important, and the rest of the staff seems to see me only as a glorified babysitter so other teachers can have a 30 minute break while i take their students off their hands. i came into this job with enthusiasm and all kinds of creative ideas to create a successful program, but since then, both my enthusiasm as well as my self-esteem have been rapidly deflating. i have taught in one other school in my almost-3 year teaching career, and while i still wasn't positive that teaching (at least in a classroom setting) was the career for me, i was happy enough in my old school's setting. i only have about 17 weeks (not that i'm counting!!) until the end of my contract and i desperately wish i was strong enough to make it through to the end, but i'm seriously starting to worry about my sanity at this point. the stress/frustration/misery from my job is starting to become all-consuming! it's all i ever seem to be able to think/talk/dream about and it's negatively affecting many other areas of my life (eating, sleeping, stupid fights with boyfriend, etc.) the obvious solution seems to be QUIT!!!!, but i'm very scared to ruin my chances for future employment opportunities. i mean, who would want to hire a "quitter"??? does anyone have any strategies for surviving the next 17 weeks without negatively affecting my life outside of work??? please advise if you can!!

halose7en
02-07-2005, 01:33 AM
Oh gosh, this really doesn't look good to someone else, like me, who is an aspiring teacher! I haven't even started grad school to get my credential yet, and I'm already hearing horror stories!

I don't honestly know quite what to suggest, since I haven't yet had this problem myself, but maybe you need to sit down and have a talk with the principal of the school. Explain to him (or her) some of your issues, and try to find a way to best solve them so that you, and more importantly, the students, can work in a safe, comfortable environment.

As for the other teachers, I wouldn't worry about them. Not everyone loves their job, and unfortunately, they seem to think that they have a right to rub their bad attitude on you, which isn't right. Find stregnth and comfort in something else in your spare time, in order to keep your spirits up. Be sure to keep your chin up during school hours too. Continue to greet your fellow co-workers with a smile, or at least a pleasant 'Hello'. It may just rub off on some of them at some point.

I'm really curious to know how this turns out. Please send me a Private Message sometime and we'll chat more about this!

GetMeOuttaDC
02-07-2005, 02:20 AM
does anyone have any strategies for surviving the next 17 weeks without negatively affecting my life outside of work??? please advise if you can!!


Drink heavily... What is it you teach anyway that students "resent" learning? You didn;t mention the age group, but most of what I "learned" in school I resented having to learn.