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orky13
02-09-2005, 02:09 PM
So here is my post! My exboyfriend/friend convinced me to post, though I don't think I've hit total crisis just yet!

I just finished my B.A. Degree at Hiram College in Hiram Ohio right after Thanksgiving. I'm on the second time around with my boyfriend-we've been dating again for about 10 months now. I just got a new job, and though it is entry level (order-entry associate) it's got a stellar salary plus benefits. Much better than I thought I'd do right out of school. My love life is complicated--I've been with my boyfriend for quite a while but I still have constant doubts. I am into live music, outdoorsy stuff like hiking and camping, and reading, writing, and painting. I live with my parents for the time being though I intend to move out before my 24th in August.

I can't really articulate my quarterlife crisis better than that at this point but I am sure it will emerge here. :rolleyes:

-I was just informed that I am obsessive/compulsive with uncertainty, I panic a lot about decisions that should be easy to make, and I get freaked out because of guilt and fear. So that could be where the crisis comes in!

mishl982
02-09-2005, 02:14 PM
I think you are in the same boat as most of us here. We're not all really under a crisis, but there are things going on in our lives that we would like to see be better. I think you're doing pretty well so far.

And welcome :green:

rafflesj
02-09-2005, 02:25 PM
I have OCD too and I know uncertainty can drive me batty, especially when it comes to guys. Hang in there!

orky13
02-09-2005, 02:28 PM
Thanks! Yeah, the career decisions come easy... it's the relationship ones that paralyze me.

halose7en
02-09-2005, 02:31 PM
I'm sure you'll be fine with the relationship thing, Orky. Things work out somehow.

Besides, I'm sure you have great taste in guys!