The Ex Accidently Dialed My Number Last Night

[Winter Storm]

So I'm passed out sleep last night and I do mean passed out, I'd had a little nightcap before bed, when the phone rings a few times. I almost didn't hear it, but turned on the light to read the Caller ID, (cause I'm screening), and it's my ex boyfriend calling from his mother's house! Yes, the same one that I caught cheating and lying 7 months ago and we haven't spoken since!

I'm so out of it, I answer 'Hello?!', he's like 'Hey!' all happy. I say again 'Hello?' cause I know this is unreal. He again says 'Hey!'. I realize that he could not be really trying to talk to me and there's been a mistake. I say 'Do you realize what number you've called?' He says 'What do you mean?' I think he has no idea. I say 'I think you dialed the wrong number' He quickly says 'Oh, I dailed the wrong number, ok' and hangs up.

I lay back in bed laughing thinking, glad that wasn't me who accidently called him, I'd be kicking myself for months. But what I thought was weird was if he's at his mom's house, he had to dial my number out and even when I picked up the phone, he still didn't realize he called the wrong number. I guess whoever this girl is that he was trying to call has a number similar to mine and sounds just like me? Probably looks just like me too.

Either way, I see somebody still has a little bit of me on the brain. Funny!

[J-girl]

I think he made a conscious decision to call you back.

[biodork]

Yeah I think so too because it's not like he was calling from a cell phone where it's easier to press and hold the wrong number for a speed dial.

How does that make you feel though? When my ex called me I sorta freaked out (but had to have a friend figure out who it was for me first because I never thought I would talk to him again hehe)

[Winter Storm]

Yeah I think so too because it's not like he was calling from a cell phone where it's easier to press and hold the wrong number for a speed dial.

How does that make you feel though? When my ex called me I sorta freaked out (but had to have a friend figure out who it was for me first because I never thought I would talk to him again hehe)

I just think the whole thing is strange. I think it's possible that this girl's number starts out with the same 3 digits as mine (which means she's in the area too) and no doubt, she probably looks and sounds like me (the girl he cheated on me with, looked like me) so maybe it was one of those things where he dialed the wrong last 4 digits and didn't realize it was me. I wonder if he even knew it was me. I'm just so glad it wasn't me. The next time I will definitely say something so he knows he dialed MY number. Hope he's kicking himself!

I was also surprised at how calm I was. If I hadn't been drinking or asleep, I might have panicked if I saw that number on the Caller ID. I laughed it off. I guess I really am over him. Whew!

[shimmer728]

What a jackass! Share this story with all your friends and laugh at him behind his back. :D

[biodork]

Well good then I'm glad it didn't affect you badly! It's a nice thing to know you are really over someone.

[tina1979]

I think he did it on purpose, but you are over him and didn't let it get the best of you. Cheers to you!

[Tayl405]

Yeah it does sound like he did it on purpose and tried to cover it up when you didn't respond however he was hoping you would.

My ex one time left me a really long, drunken message intending to be for his girlfriend at the time (our names start the same, so undoubtedly were next to each other in his phone). I could barely understand what he was saying, but I got a kick out of it. Haha, she gets to deal with it, not me!

[Bugsey34]

I had a similar experience;

This weekend on Sunday I called a restaurant to make a reservation for me and a guy, actually. It's not really a restaurant but it's a stand that opens in nice weather in a park here in NYC with burgers and shakes. So I call to if they;re staying open for dinnertime because it was so nice out and a guy answers the phone and says "this is XX speaking". The name he used was the name of my ex, and then as I was talking to him about if the place was closed or not, it sounded EXACTLY like my ex with that name. They turned out to be closed, so I didnt get to go, but it was such a weird experience.

I can't imagine he would be working there, I mean he had a good job before as a sales rep, would he really be working at an outdoor burger joint??? But it sounded just like him... I was thinking maybe I would swing down there this weekend to check it out, maybe take a friend.

[mishl982]

You know that makes me wonder if the guy that called me this weekend called the wrong number. Because for him to call me at 330 am for a bootycall after not talking for like 3 months is really random!

[Kitty]

What a jackass! Share this story with all your friends and laugh at him behind his back. :D

LOL!!!!

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[shimmer728]

Seriously, the guy cheated and lied like a rug. He deserves to look like a fool.

[tina1979]

You know that makes me wonder if the guy that called me this weekend called the wrong number. Because for him to call me at 330 am for a bootycall after not talking for like 3 months is really random!
Not really. same thing happened to me friday night. Haven't talked to the guy in months, but he called me up at 2:30 looking for some, but with the excuse that he needed help getting our mutual friend up the stairs in his apartment because he was so drunk he was dead weight.

[mishl982]

Not really. same thing happened to me friday night. Haven't talked to the guy in months, but he called me up at 2:30 looking for some, but with the excuse that he needed help getting our mutual friend up the stairs in his apartment because he was so drunk he was dead weight.
Well maybe that makes me feel better. Because even though I didn't go and it probably would have been a bad idea if I did, I admit I got a little excited from it. I'm bootycall-worthy! :p

[tina1979]

Well maybe that makes me feel better. Because even though I didn't go and it probably would have been a bad idea if I did, I admit I got a little excited from it. I'm bootycall-worthy! :p
I actually let him pick me up (because he argued with me for an hour) and helped him drag our friend up his stairs. Although I turned down the actual booty call part of the night, it was kinda nice to have been thought of. :green:

[GetMeOuttaDC]

I'm bootycall-worthy! :p

You are a hottie, but... I find bootycalls insulting. (I'm only good enough when youre drunk? I don't think so, you want action you can take me out on a few dates and make an emotional investment, and continue doing so IF I deem you worthy) I had a "rep" in my college dorm for telling bootycallers loudly and colorfully to go eff themselves.

[mishl982]

You are a hottie, but... I find bootycalls insulting. (I'm only good enough when youre drunk? I don't think so, you want action you can take me out on a few dates and make an emotional investment, and continue doing so IF I deem you worthy) I had a "rep" in my college dorm for telling bootycallers loudly and colorfully to go eff themselves.
That's ok Kelly, I totally understand what you mean. Although I could never get into a bootycall or Friends w/Benefits relationship (I would get easily attached), it's nice to know that somebody wants to have sex with me!! haha. :p

[shimmer728]

I also find booty calls incredibly insulting. I'd gladly tell any guy who tried to booty call me to use his hand and some tissues. :cool: I don't remember it ever having happened, though.

[GetMeOuttaDC]

That's ok Kelly, I totally understand what you mean. Although I could never get into a bootycall or Friends w/Benefits relationship (I would get easily attached), it's nice to know that somebody wants to have sex with me!! haha. :p

gotcha... :)

Once, when my ex kept calling and calling me after we'd broken up, my friend and I sent an inflatable doll to his house with a mean little note. :twisted:

I just wish there was a statute of limitations - say, if we broke up more than three years ago, don't freaking call me!

[mishl982]

Once, when my ex kept calling and calling me after we'd broken up, my friend and I sent an inflatable doll to his house with a mean little note. :twisted:
Hmm well if this guy continues drunken calls at 3 am then I know how I can quickly get rid of him :) (That is.. if I am able to resist)

[GetMeOuttaDC]

Hmm well if this guy continues drunken calls at 3 am then I know how I can quickly get rid of him :) (That is.. if I am able to resist)

he did call once again and we covered his front door in gay porn.

[capella]

he did call once again and we covered his front door in gay porn.

LOL, that's a riot! :lol:

[J-girl]

You are a hottie, but... I find bootycalls insulting. (I'm only good enough when youre drunk? I don't think so, you want action you can take me out on a few dates and make an emotional investment, and continue doing so IF I deem you worthy) I had a "rep" in my college dorm for telling bootycallers loudly and colorfully to go eff themselves.

I agree. Unless I make the booty call. Now that's different :evil:

[Deadend]

I agree. Unless I make the booty call. Now that's different :evil:

For the last time J, take me out on a few dates and make an emotional investment, and continue doing so IF I deem you worthy

[J-girl]

For the last time J, take me out on a few dates and make an emotional investment, and continue doing so IF I deem you worthy


Can you dumb this down for me?

[GetMeOuttaDC]

Can you dumb this down for me?

yeah, it was a shot at me. :(

I was just saying, I don't do friends with benefits - you want a booty call, we better be in a relationship. I wasn't judging anyone who feels differently, just SAYING that that's not right for me. Sorry if that's so offensive to people.

[Deadend]

No way, GMODC, not a shot at all. Maybe a bit hard on the guy, but it's nice to see someone that puts a decent value on intamacy.

I just wanted to imply that J was calling me for a booty call :twisted:

(you know, but giving a recently explained response to said booty call) :huge:

Here I thought I was being extra clever :(

[GetMeOuttaDC]

No way, GMODC, not a shot at all. Maybe a bit hard on the guy, but it's nice to see someone that puts a decent value on intamacy.

I just wanted to imply that J was calling me for a booty call :twisted:

(you know, but giving a recently explained response to said booty call) :huge:

Here I thought I was being extra clever :(

:lol: That makes more sense - I was a bit suprised; since you're really nice most of the time. and thank you for the compliment. :) Sorry to accuse you, I read that when I was really tired. You would be suprised how many enemies of both sexes I've made in real life for having that attitude towards booty calling, and I guess I am still sensitive.

you know what though; my response is not hard on the guy. too many guys -at least where I am- feel entitled to all of the benefits and none of the responsibilities of a relationship just because the ratio is a bit off balance or they need to invest all their time in their "careers". I think if you want intimacy, you can invest a bit of time and energy to be in a relationship. A booty call treats sex like a physical need, and a woman like this worthless entity who's only a tool to fill that need.

many guys I've met here feel that they can cease acting friendly or even civil towards me once they find out I'm in a committed relationship and am not interested in cheating, and it makes me think less of men in general.

[J-girl]

No way, GMODC, not a shot at all. Maybe a bit hard on the guy, but it's nice to see someone that puts a decent value on intamacy.

I just wanted to imply that J was calling me for a booty call :twisted:

(you know, but giving a recently explained response to said booty call) :huge:

Here I thought I was being extra clever :(


Gotcha- I am such a home wrecker eh!

GMODC- I am the same way. I dont do casual sex, and whenever this guy calls me for booty call I always tell him I want you 100% or not at all. I dont care if he thinks I am a psycho cuz he is the one who calls me!

And I am not putting down people who engage in casual sex. More power to them. I am just a lame ass who gets attached to a guy after sex.

[GetMeOuttaDC]

I am just a lame ass who gets attached to a guy after sex.

who says that makes you a lame ass?